We all know that song by "The Dream", Shorty is a 10. Well, how do you determine your rank? I personally try to stay away from this overrated system, but who can resist! When you're giving a guy 'knowledge', you want to know on a scale of 1-10 where you stand! In our minds we would all like to believe that we will score higher than a 5. But what happens when you get a 6, especially if your past companions rated you a 8 or 9?
At that point your mind starts to make it's own comparisons. You want to know who was better than you and what made them better? How come she gets a 8 and you only get a 6? Was she really his 'super head' or is he just saying that to ruffle your feathers? Part of me feels like they give a low score to get your momentum going, and to get you in your competitive mode! Secretly they want to know how far you're willing to go to be 'head of your class', or valedictorian...lol!
Regardless, I feel that when doing it, you should feel like you love it! Like that is the only way for you to get oxygen...lol! If you know your giving it all you got, then no one can put a number on that because you know you got it hands down!
Let me know what y'all think! :)
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It's funny that you wrote about this. I'm the type of guy that usually doesn't climax off of head alone. It's only been one girl who has ever made me climax from head. The crazy thing is that I told my girlfriend that only one girl has tamed the beast. She wanted to know her name and what made the other girl better. To be honest I really didn't have an answer for her. But the chick that got the title will go down in history as the best! Real talk.
@ Omar: Maybe it was more so psychological than physical? Were you in love w/ the other chic? Just wondering since you aren't able to explain it.
Pink Cufflynx: Glad to have you back!!
Hey Omar,
Interesting. Are you comfortable w/ your sexuality. Meaning: do you know how to pleasure yourself (if you don't mind my asking). I've heard that it takes some guys longer to climax from oral. H/e not being able to is a different story. Maybe it's a mental thing like Wes said.
Curious to know your feed back.
Hey Wes,
Thanx for the warm welcome! I'm glad to be back! :)
To Answer Wes's question. I think it was a little bit of both (physical and psychological). But ole' girl did something amazing when she handled her biz. Maybe it was her moans or the different techniques she used or maybe she just loved doing more than anyone else who ever did it. With her I never 'had' to ask.
To Answer Ness's question. To be honest with you, I never really had to pleasure myself. I like penetration over self pleasure. It wasn't until I started dating this young lady that I had to resort to pleasuring myself (but that's a different subject) (smile). But I have tried to put myself in a mental state to climax w/ other chicks but it doesn't happen. With the girl who made me climax off of head, I usually had to fight the urge to climax.
I agree with what you said Ness in regards to when doing it you should feel like you love it and give it your all. I rather not ask the question about a particular rating b/c it may or may not upset me...I rather just enjoy the moment and know that all is good b/c after all no matter who came before me it's me now!!! :)
Hey Bonafidelatina,
Yup I wouldn't have it any other way! In my mind I'm the best and there's no other...lol. Believe it or not, I was around a friend of a friend and she wanted to compare her d*ck sucking skills with all the women in the room by showing her own videos via her cell phone. I could've cared less b/c I know where I stand w/ mine. No need to show boat..lol.
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