As a heterosexual female, I'll be the first to say that I luv me some straight d*ck. I may have dabbed here and there regarding adventure but miss kitty knows where home is ;)
Lately, I've been seeing women coupled up. I have no problem with lesbian relationships, but there's one thing that I really don't understand. How come women who are lesbians date other women who look like 'men'? Why not be with another woman who looks like a woman. U know....cute, dressed in regular fitting clothes and cute shoes.
I know people say that women have that special touch, and that they understand a woman better....than a man...yadda, yadda.... but to me, a women can do you just as wrong as a man can. I over-hear them on their cell phones talking about how they're cheating on their girlfriends with the next woman who does what their girlfriend won't. Either way, you can be hurt.
I don't want to sound mean, but the majority of butch looking lesbians aren't in shape and who really wants to see that? I don't want my man looking like that so why would I want a woman who looks like that? If I ever switched to the other side of the fence I would have to find a girl who looks and dresses like a girl.
Ladies and Fellas:
How do you feel about this?
Do you understand it, if so can you help explain it?
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I agree. I would most definitely choose a pretty chick. Wait, I can't say this b/c I can't get past the fact that she doesn't have a dick. Nope, I wouldn't choose ANY woman. I'd consider a threesome with a man and female, but not a twosome with me and another chick. I've dibbled and dabbled a few times and I'm strictly dickly.
Hey Just Steph aka PBFE lol,
Lol. I agree. I don't thnk a woman can blow ur back out like a man even if she did strap on a d*ldo. But if for some reason all the men disappeared I'd have to have a pretty chick lol.
I have a few lesbian friends who are the "men" and they've explained that they do not feel comfortable receiving and they really do enjoy spoiling the femmes. It still grossed me out a little when they kissed but to each thier own. I tried once and that failed miserably.
by the way I heart you and Just steph
Hey Just Jasmine,
Thnx 4 sharing the info about your lesbian friends. I couldn't understand it, but now I do ;)I guess it's about being the one in control.
I like to be spoiled but IDK about being spoiled by a female on an intimate level.
I just love the strong back and legs of a man!! Women r so gentle lol. I need someone to pick me up & carry me (if u know what I mean) lol ;)
Aww...thnx! I appreciate it.
That has always stumped me. If you choose to be in a lesbian relationship why would you choose a manly looking butch? That makes no sense. I guess they want the feel of the man but the ability to lick carpet. I dont know. I need dick in my life. Point blank period. No dick then... I have to pull out my Jamal (bullet). But I rather the stiffness.
PBFE out!!!! Later Sorors
Hey Baby_T,
Tht's the way I feel. Why do I want a women who looks like a man when I can just go get me one. Plus the butch females look outta shape. Tht's not cute or sexy. Even if I'm dealing w/ a man who isn't working out everyday, he still has some tone and a physique.
Girll I know what you mean. I can't look at another woman and feel the rise in my loins that I get from a man. Its utterly impossible. I mean I still salivate over Omar Epp's Back in love and Basketball and Mel Jackson's Lips in Soul food
I mean I can go on and on forever with this. No woman can ever do me like a real man can.
@Just Jasmine,
Exactly. It's something about a man that's so sexy. I love a good back lol. It's something sexy about their deep voices. Their basketball toned legs. And their swagger. I can on about all the things I love about a man...lol.
BUT! If I had to be with a woman she'd be cute. Best believe when we go out we'll both be in some skinny jeans and stiletto's...lol looking sexy 2gether. Can u imagine the type of attention that will draw from on-lookers lol.
LMAO the both of you in Skinny Jeans and Stilettos.
Here's another aspect though:
Have you noticed in these relationships the "femme" is very well taken care of? She is always sproting the latest clothing/bags/accessories. The "man" spoils the femme.
Two high maintenance women won't work for a while. My sisters and I stay fighting over MY leopard print pumps.
Hey Just Jasmine,
I do notice that the 'woman' in these FF relationships are well taken care of, but at what price? Not to say there's anything bad happening but how much control would the 'male' want over her b/c she's doing so much for her.
You're probably right, two high maintenance women will probably cause problems in the long run lol. But one of us would have to take the dominant role. Maybe me lol.
ok, I'll bite.
I think the issue really is the way you define what is masculine and what is feminine.
Are muscles masculine, or are they just the sign of a person who likes to work out?.
Having a big body, walking a certain way?
what makes a man a man and what makes a woman a woman?
People (in general) don't decide to be lesbians they are lesbians because they are attracted to women. And thankfully women come in all shapes and sizes. Surely lesbians can have a preference for body type within the 'female gender'.
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