One of my guy friends asked me, "why do women think they're smarter than guys"? I laughed after he said it b/c in my mind I was saying "because we are"..lol. I asked him to elaborate just to make sure he & I were on the same page and he said.... "well, guys and girls can do the same thing but females think tht b/c they don't get caught that they're much better than us". Of course I replied with because we don't do dumb sh*t. Granted this doesn't have to be on a complete sexual level, but I'm sure tht's wht he was implying. So I'm gonna take it there.Everyone one is quick to say that females are emotional creatures and that may be true, but men are creatures of habit. So if you look at the logic behind our decision making process whether it's on a sexual level or a general level, we tend to be thinkers with whatever it is that we decide to do. We put a lot of thought into things and sometimes ppl (men) confuse it w/ being emotional. But it's more on the level of being thoroughly conscious.
I don't want to make it about cheating but just to touch on it briefly. Women don't cheat b/c of our habitual nature (like some men). If we do cheat it's b/c we are brought to that point by the actions of the guy. So b/c we're thinkers, we cover all grounds b4 we step into that situation where as men don't. Another example is life in general. Females tend to look at the bigger picture of the situation so when we make a 'suggestion' to our guy on something, he may ignore it b/c they feel that wht they know is solid, i/o getting a 2nd opinion and tht's usually when the "I told you so's" follow.
Example: I know a couple who was married. My friend caught her husband cheating and after all the drama they decided to work things out, she forgave him and they moved on. He wasn't smart b/c he got caught cheating by doing dumb sh*t like not deleting text msgs, not shredding credit card receipts from the hotel and just foolishness like switching up his normal routine (which is a DEAD giveaway). Now..my friend wasn't looking for someone but one day she met someone and there was undeniable chemistry there & she decided to f*ck w/the guy. Being tht females are smarter, she covered her tracks, like if she said she was at Keisha's house then she would make sure Keisha knew that if her hubby called to play along. She didn't do anything out of the norm and her husband never found out until she decided to tell him. I know some of you are saying 'WTF!!' why tell him?! She wanted him to know tht anything he could do to her tht she could do it him b/c what goes around comes around.
Question:
Do you agree? Are females smarter or do we just do things better?
Do you agree? Are females smarter or do we just do things better?