You Could've Had A V8!

When the sex tape with Kim Kardashian and Ray J came out, it was the talk of the town!  It wasn't a must that I see it, but one Saturday afternoon, some of my home girls and I were bored. There was nothing on TV and she had the video so we decided to pop in the DVD and watch it.

As we sat there sipping mimosa's, the video began to play.  None of us had seen the video so we were a little curious if Ray J was holdin' and if Kim got down for hers.  Five to ten minutes into the video, we all agreed that Kim was a lazy f*ck and Ray J was an average lover.  We were so disappointed in Kim because all that talk about her phat ass this and her big butt that and all she did was lay on her back.  When she was getting it from the back she didn't even 'sit it up' for him. They even did voice-overs for her moans....(lol).  

I say all of that to say this...ladies please don't put yourself in that category.  It's not a nice place to be.  My male friends and I talk about this all the time and there's nothing worse than a pretty chick who is lazy in bed.  One guy said he faked an orgasm once b/c it was a complete waste of his time. 

Did any of you see the video?  If so what's your opinion?

Fellas:

Have you ever been with a lazy chick?  If so how many times did you put up with her lazy tendencies?

Ladies:

Has anyone ever said you was lazy in bed? Or do you feel like you're on top of your game?

Happy Sexy Birthday Libra's!!!!

Hey everyone,

I wanted to show some luv for the Libra's on this post. If you're a Libra, happy born day! or if you know a Libra, I hope this holds true!! Enjoy!!

This sign is one of the kinkiest of the kinky, especially the Libran woman. The symbolism is the scales, which usually means weighing the pros and cons of life and sex.

The Libra man has the art of making love down to a fine science, but he sometimes gets lost in the foreplay, forgetting about the "play". He will sip champagne from your navel or insert objects into your vagina and release them at the point of orgasm. But don't rush the man, because Librans love to play in bed all day and most the night. He can be dramatic in his approach; he'll begin with an intimate candlelight dinner (which he's prepared!) and champagne, followed by a bath with you, massage and "dessert".

The woman of this sign has unusual control of the vaginal muscles and can constrict them to bring her partner to orgasm. She'll take it slow and easy, while she explores your body. In bed, she's willing and ready to do what's needed, and she'll try anything once.

The opposite sign of Libra is Aries, and the Aries/Libra combination is "hot to trot" in the bedroom, but unless this pair comes up with something stimulating, a long-term commitment is not in the cards. They are most compatible with Leos, Sagittarians, Aquarians, and Gemini.

-Thelma Balfour

Again, Happy Born Day to all Libra's!!!!!!!

Discussion:

If you're a Libra, let me know if this holds true. Or if you know a Libran, do you think this passage fits them?

What's The Big Deal?!

In our day in age, any and everything is possible when it comes to sex. Some people even call themselves "trysexuals". Over my sexual years, I noticed that more and more men and women want anal sex.

Some women are allocating taking it in the 'back door', because they say that it makes your butt bigger and others say it just feels good. Men want to give it in the ass because they say that if feels better.

None of the men I've been with really pushed the anal card that much. They may have mentioned it here and there but didn't press the issue when I said it wasn't for me. Some female associates and friends also said that I should give it a try because it's a different feeling than taking it in the pun. Either way, there wasn't anything anyone could do to convince me to go down a one-way street.

..until.......lol

I decided to have a few drinks and 'give' someone a bday gift...lol. Yup, I decided to 'just do it' as Mike would say. Surprisingly, I took it better than I thought I would. You hear about all the pain and it makes you not want to even try. Although I enjoyed my 1st time, I'm not sure if it's something that I will continue to do. I feel like I keep miss kitty on a tight exercise schedule so going through the 'front door' is just as stimulating as going through the 'back door'...lol.

Ladies,

How do you guys feel about anal? Is it something that you can't live without?

Have you tried it, if so did you like it?

Fellas,

What turns you on about anal? Or is it something that you're really not that into?

To Each Its Own!

There's something that has been an unanswered question regarding men and their 'johnsons'.

Ladies, I'm going to need your help here! I know some of you may feel indifferent about this topic, but I need to know if I'm the only female that has no problem with it. I'm talking about uncircumcised johnsons!!

I've dealt with men who weren't circumcised and the extra skin hasn't bothered me. Most of the men that weren't circumcised made sure to be extra hygienic when it came to 'Mr. Happy'..lol. It seemed like once I had my first experience with an uncircumcised man, I seemed to attract them by default...lol. I must say, that all the men that happened to still have that extra piece of skin seemed to be well endowed! So I had no complaints!

In the past, I've discussed this topic with friends and I got mixed reactions. Some females were grossed out by the thought of an uncircumcised man. Other's didn't have a problem with it (like myself).

My question to the ladies is this:

1)Have you ever dealt w/ an uncircumcised man, if so how was your experience?

2)What would your reaction be if you had a sexual encounter with a man who wasn't circumcised?

For the fellas:

1)Have you had any problems getting girls b/c you're not circumcised?

2)How have girls reacted?

3)Do you find it hard to keep it clean? Would you ever get circumcised now?

The Incredible, Unedible Egg

In one of my past posts (click here), I wrote about going to your favorite sexy lingerie shop and finding seductive outfits or toys that will work with your sex life. We'll I had to lay an old toy to rest a few months ago.

I decided to go and take a look at what's new or what I may have over looked when I first ventured out to buy my first toy. As I wrote in my previous post, your shopping experience will be hassle free. No one will follow you around and if you have questions then they will help you as best as possible. They should also "battery check" your toys to make sure they work properly as all sales should be final...lol. I remember one time, they didn't do a battery check and when I got home it didn't work. I was so pissed off because it's not like I could take it back...lol. So I tossed it.

Anyways, while I was in my favorite 'toy store' I stumbled on a few interesting products. One being something similar to the pic in this post. I didn't know what area it was supposed to be used in...lol. So I decided to ask the sales associate and she said it's a clitoral stimulant. I was very curious about this little egg shaped device because I looovvveee anything that has to do with the clitoris. ;)

Without going into too much detail on how I used my toy (wink, wink ;) I will say this... I absolutely love all the different functions.  My toy has 5 settings and I can control the speed! This bad boy vibrates, throbs and pulsates!  It can even do two functions at one time! Yup, it's a sensational feeling...literally ;) And to my surprise it wasn't expensive at all so that was an added plus.

Do you have a favorite toy?  Do you use the toy with your partner? If so do you find it more stimulating?

Love Comes In Different Forms!

Hi Everyone,

Wes, who is a friend and blogger of Honey Brown Sugar told me about a blogging opportunity that she thought would suit me. She told me about a message she received through twitter from Blogxilla, who I have been following for a few weeks now. He needed a guest blogger so I decided to contact him to see if I could submit a post. I must admit, I was a little nervous because I wasn't sure if I could measure up to the caliber of his site and the expectations of his followers.

He contacted me back and said to submit a post and I began to think of an interesting topic that was true to how I felt, yet something people could relate to, discuss and comment on openly. After I finished writing my post, I sent it to Blogxilla and he posted it the next day. People started commenting and giving their views and opinions on my post. It was interesting to see all of the different opinions and experiences. I was very happy that people took to it.

You can view this post by clicking here. I hope you guys enjoy it. Feel free to leave a comment on there if you like.

I would like to give a special thanks to Wes for sending me the info and to Blogxilla for allowing me to be part of his blogging world!!!!

Ness

Be Careful Who You Hurt!!!!!

I feel the need to inform my readers on some info I found while surfing the net. I've heard about people doing horrible things in order to seek revenge on their exes.  However, the story I'm about to write about is in the top 3 of the most mentally deranged things you can do!!!

There's a company on-line called Retail Crabs.  They breed lice crabs and sell them to people who want to seek revenge on an ex that may have cheated or broken their heart.  They have different packages: 

The Bronze pkg come w/ one egg colony for $99. 

The Silver pkg comes w/ three colonies for $219 

The Gold pkg is supposed to be shampoo resistant lice for $298

How f*cked up do you have to be to do something like this to someone, let alone to manufacture this type of crap!!!!  They even have a testimony on-line from a girl who purchased them to prove her boyfriend was cheating with a co-worker.  WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!

All of the above packages come with shampoo just in case you accidentally infect yourself or use yourself as a host to transmit the disease!!!  Again WTF is wrong with these people?! They even offer school field trips for students...I mean c'mon!! 

The CEO's of this dumb ass company are frat boys who said they caught crabs in college from the same woman and now they want revenge on the world.  Sound like a bunch of dumb asses to me!

I just had to get this out there. Sorry if this grossed anyone out.

Shorty's A 10!

We all know that song by "The Dream", Shorty is a 10. Well, how do you determine your rank? I personally try to stay away from this overrated system, but who can resist! When you're giving a guy 'knowledge', you want to know on a scale of 1-10 where you stand! In our minds we would all like to believe that we will score higher than a 5. But what happens when you get a 6, especially if your past companions rated you a 8 or 9?

At that point your mind starts to make it's own comparisons. You want to know who was better than you and what made them better? How come she gets a 8 and you only get a 6? Was she really his 'super head' or is he just saying that to ruffle your feathers? Part of me feels like they give a low score to get your momentum going, and to get you in your competitive mode! Secretly they want to know how far you're willing to go to be 'head of your class', or valedictorian...lol!

Regardless, I feel that when doing it, you should feel like you love it! Like that is the only way for you to get oxygen...lol! If you know your giving it all you got, then no one can put a number on that because you know you got it hands down!

Let me know what y'all think! :)

What Happens After The Video?

It's Friday night, you and your mate are home with nothing else to do but pass the time. One of you suggest to do your own amateur sex tape and at the moment it seems like a great idea! Y'all get into it and tape your sexcapades all around the house! After it's all said and done you guys sit and watch it. As you watch yourselves perform for the camera, the most obvious thought crosses your mind..."I hope this tape stays private".

At this moment, no one is thinking about what happens to the tape if you guys break up. I'm sure stipulations are stated once the video has been watched. I.E...you can't show any of your friends or better yet, who gets the tape if you decide to break up. But does anyone ever remember that darn tape once you part ways....(nope)...lol.

So my question is this, what happens to that video that you forgot to destroy? Do you think it will end up on You Tube for the whole world to see?

Have any of you ever made a sex tape, if so what happened to the tape? 

Do you regret making the tape or would you do another one if you had the chance?

Curious to know! 

Yours & Mine Follow-up

Okay, so I went out and purchased the K-Y Yours and Mine. It was the last box on the shelf, not to mention the box looked opened and tampered with. I was going to just walk away, but I decided to pick up the box to inspect it and to my surprise the box opens to show the two tubes together. Once I realized that it was packaged that way, I looked for the price and put it in my shopping basket.

I don't know why I was a little shocked at the price, which I thought that was kind of pricey at $14.99. However, once I looked at the other K-Y products I noticed that the price margins were similar.

The packaging of the product was kinda cool, however they had a white holding ring instead of the black one they use to advertise the product. Being that the whole packaging is dark, I thought the white was kinda odd.

Now, onto the good stuff!! So my beau and I are getting into the mood, and foreplay is in full effect! The bottles are already taken out of the packaging so we're good to go. (NOT) As were sitting there full fledged ready to go, we can't get any of the lube out of the tubes (lol). We're both sitting there squeezing with all our might as to not loose the momentum. Then simultaneously we unscrewed the tops to the tubes and there was the culprit! The safety seal...lol! We both had a good laugh and proceeded to apply the 'yours & mine lube to each other.

In my opinion, when the two lubricants combined it created a peppermint type of feeling. It didn't burn or anything, but it created a tingly sensation which heightened the experience. Before the K-Y Yours and Mine I was using a lubricant that heats up, so comparing the two is like comparing apples to oranges. I say this because peppermint kinda gives you that cool sensation, and my old lubricant heated things up therefore it's not fare to compare the two.

When asking my beau, he said he like it and he feels like it definitely enhanced his experience. However he feels as though we should have applied it before putting on the condom to help heighten his experience.

Here are some of my pros and cons

Pros:

Not too thick or gooey

Continuously lubes

Cons:

Hard to squeeze the tubes to get the liquid out

The scent of the two combined is weird

The tube roll around a lot on the bed

Overall, I will use this product. However, I don't think I'll 're-up' when it's finished.

Yours & Mine

Almost every evening as I'm watching tv, there's a commercial that comes on without fail. It's the K-Y "Yours & Mine" dual lubricant commercial.

I usually laugh at it b/c it's a 30 second commercial about getting the sexual satisfaction necessary within a short period of time. Not to mention, they make it seem like these people barely have time to enjoy that full act of sex...lol.

I can't front, even though I'm laughing, my curiosity is peaked! They claim that women will experience what men feel and men will experience what women feel during sex.  I don't know about ya'll but I've always wondered what it feels like for men.  And I'm sure guys want to know what a woman experiences. So with that being said, I'm going to purchase this product and see if it actually does what it says it's supposed to do!..lol.

I'll let you all know how it works out! :)  So stay tuned for the review!

For more info, you can go to www.ky.com

The S Factor

I'm going to be honest with ya'll. For the past few yrs, I've been wanting to take pole dancing lessons. I've done some research here and there and found out that it can be a bit costly (that's probably why it's taken so long for me to "just do it"). They offer an Intro Class which gives you the basic necessities to get you started and give you a chance to have your questions answered. Then you move on to Level 1 which is a 6-8 week session.

Within those sessions, they'll teach you how to build strength and develop sexy, sultry dance moves. When I look at all the different things you can learn and how beneficial pole dancing is for toning and staying fit, it seems like it's worth it!

I know some of you are thinking "what's the point of taking these lessons if you can't use it everyday especially if your not a stipper (and I'm not...lol). Well to answer your question, owning a pole is quite affordable. Whether it's to impress your girlfriends or to impress a male friend or to just brush up on your skills and to stay toned, it's well worth the investment in my book!

They have 3 different types, (1) The Willow Pole which is a 1 3/4" pole which is easier to grab. (2) The Traditional Pole which is the 2" pole, this is the standard pole size. Lastly, (3) The Stowaway Pole, which comes in it's own case so you can store it or take it with you anywhere you go!

All of the above poles are removable. Although they specify to use the 2" pole on carpeted flooring because it doesn't bolt to the floor. And you can get the pole cut to fit your ceiling height!

I think a woman knowing how to work the pole is sexy as hell! I'm not a stipper, but I would definitely like to put this on my list of things I can do ;) Can ya'll imagine the surprise on your partner's face when they come over and see you in a sexy outfit with the platform shoes to match and some 'get-it-girl' music in the background! I can, that's why I think I'm going to set up an appointment for an October class being that September's classes are all full.

I'll definitely keep ya'll posted on how things are working out for me ;) For more info, you can go to http://www.sfactor.com/.

Wish me luck!!