Not All Change is Good

We all know about that little thing called chemistry. When you meet someone, it is almost an instant connection which can't be mistaken for anything else but what it is. You can either choose to act on it or leave it as it is.

I'll be the first to let ya'll know that change is good. It is needed for things to progress in a positive manner, but not all change is good. Sometimes, when you have chemistry with someone people tend to act on it without thinking about the consequences.

I can't even begin to tell ya'll how many johnsons I've turned down because I didn't want things to change between me and the guy. It's mostly a situation where there is history between me and the guy. You know how it is when you have known someone for most of your life and there has always been chemistry. There might have been some harmless flirting, dirty txt talk and even a few sexy pictures but I never really crossed the line except one time.

My guy friend called me to see if I wanted to hang out at a local lounge, I agreed and we met up. We had several drinks and we were dance partners for most of the night. He didn't seem to mind and neither did I (we were in sync with every move) I guess it was the history and chemistry that we shared. After the party was over, he walked me outside to get a ride. He hugged and before I knew it, we were kissing each other good night. We laughed it off and we were really trying to part ways, next thing you know we were feeling each other up.

I am not the one to do stuff like that in public, but I was tipsy and so was he. Next think you know, both of our pants are unzipped and his hands were trying to get into my pants and I had his johnson in my hand. I am quick to tell love birds (who are usually white) who are in the street making out to get a room, so you know it's bad when white people are yelling at you to get a room lol. We were so embarrassed, but hey it was what it was. I told him that we went too far and I had to go. In my mind I didn't want us having sex to change things. I liked things the way there were before we started groping one another.

We never picked up where we left off at and I'm glad. He and I are still friends to this day.

Do you think sex changes things?