Whether you're in a relationship or just casually dating, you will have the good and the bad cases. While I hope most of the encounters are good, there are some that aren't quite up to our standards.I find it amazing when you meet someone and they understand what you like without you telling them what it is. Whether it's the way they caress you before kissing you or the way they touch you to get you in the mood or even the way they work the middle to get you to the promise land, it's almost like having an outer body experience when you meet a person that can have that affect on you.
However, just the same as you can have someone who knows you like, you can also have someone who is clueless when it comes to what turns you on. Even when you try to give subtle hints, it never seems to hit the spot.
There is one thing that I never quite figured out how to do with precision and that is how to tell a guy what's not working. It seems pretty simple, but using the wrong word can turn a normal conversation into a battle of comparisons. I know enough about communication to never use "you" or "I". I know that substitute words need to be used so that it doesn't seem like you are attacking your partner. But once you have your substitute words, how do you get your partner to be what you want them to be for you sexually or physically without taking away from their overall sex swag?
Did you have to sit someone down to give them the talk? How did it go?
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